Rank No 1

                       Rank No 1

• It's good to be on rank No 1,first position but it's not compulsory. 
• We all always wants to be first each and every field, if we didn't get result we feel bad. 
• We have to understand that even if we are not on rank No 1, but we tried our best by giving our 100% efforts. 
• If we always compare ourselves with other, we will never happy and satisfied in our life. 
• When we are satisfied with our result at that time ,rank No 1 doesn't matter to us we are what we are, we know where we want to go. 

Dreams

                         Dreams 

• Dream is the reason of our life's journey, we all have dreams, desires, goal which gives meaning for our life. 
• Dream is that journey which covers the distance between what we are and what we want to be. 
•  In the  journey  of life some times we face failure, and that's OK it is part of our life. 
• Dreams come true when we believe in ourself, faith in our work. 
• Some time it will take time, but definitely gives result ;so we have to believe in our self and we should  work continuously till we reach to our goal.

Self Motivation

               Self  Motivation 

• Self Motivation is an important aspect for our personal growth in life. 
• When we motivate ourselves, we create positivity towards our dreams and desires. 
• Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind. 
• Self motivation is that strength which helps us for improvisation of our abilities. 
• The best motivation is self  motivation.

Silence

                Be silent when....? 

• When you don't know the truth,be silent. 
• When you are angry, be silent. 
• When you know, you can't control things, be silent. 
• When it's time to listen, be silent. 
• When You know your words hurt someone's feelings  be silent. 
• When you don't know whole situation,be silent. 
• Because becoming judgemental for others is very easy, when it's time for us we understand that situation.
• There fore before you talk think atleast once.

Rule of Life

                           Change

• Nothing is constant except change in our life, because change is law of nature. 
• Sometime it's painful, sometime it's joyful ; but it's part of our life. 
• We have to accept the change with respect to time,for moving towards in life. 
• If our thought is responsible for change in our life, then it's better to change the way of thinking. 
• So no need to scare from change, it's part of life's journey. 

Hope

                          Hope is Magic 

• Hope is that positive magical vibration ,which gives us energy for restart.
• Sometimes our mind says  everything is finished and enough is enough, at that time our heart says "Don't give up give one more chance" this is hope. 
• Hope gives vision towards our dreams and desires. 
• When unexpected things happen in our life, at that time hope plays vital role to overcome the situation. 
• Always believe in yourself, hard time is the part of life's journey don't give up, "Do your best Hope for the Best". 

Being Human

                        Being Human 

• Be the type of person that you want to meet,if we  understand this ,we will be more happy .
• Beautiful Heart, peaceful soul, Helping Hands ,we made with these qualities ; but because of we carry unnecessary ego sometimes we forget to being Human.
• Humanity should be in our Nature it gives us different way of thinking .
• When we think good, we act good; when we act good, we do good .
• Being Human is not difficult thing, but it definitely different thing .

Thoughts in morning

          Positive thoughts in morning 

• Positive thoughts in the morning and see whole day is yours. 
• If we think positively at the starting of the day, then we boost ourself with good vibrations which helps us to be fresh whole day. 
• Forget yesterdays failure, hurt, anger it's new day, new chance and hope. 
• When we starts our day ,atleast 20mins we should not listen crime news or read news related with crimes.
• It's better we have to listen positive, enthusiastic, encouraging thoughts which empowers us for whole day. 

Forgiveness

                  Forgive Be Happy 

• When we create hurt due to  people ,we also depletes our positive energy. 
• For live our life peacefully and happily, we have to forgive.
• Sometime the unexpected things happen in our life, and cause of hurt is our loved ones or closed ones and we thought that, How they can do this to me? 
• When we think again and again about that, we creates negativity in our mind, because of that we create hurt and pain. 
• If we hold pain that only hurts us, so don't disturb inner peace for any one.

Happiness

          Happiness is choice 

• Happiness is choice, but because of our lot  of expectations from life we forget to live happily. 
• Sometime we can't forget past and sometime we worry about future,but due to past and future we forget to live in present. 
• If we want to be happy ,one thing we have to understand accpect the things and let the things go. 
• Happiness is within us ,don't expect from outer world. 
• Don't be sad for the things which are not in our control, people as well as unrealistic expectations, be happy live happy .

"Ego" let it go..

                  "Ego" let it go....

• As we acquired knowledge, postiton, power, we developed ego and we shifted from giving respect to expecting respect. 
• No need to be egoistic be yourself  ,with ego consciousness behavior is of anger, hurt, and negative emotions. 
• If we carry ego with us then the way people reacts and treat will definitely change. 
• Ego is that negative energy, which enforce us to forget about harmony, humanity, kindness, respect, care. 
• When ego comes into relations, it badly effect our beautiful bonds, so don't carry ego let it go .

Is tit for tat right?

           Is Tit for Tat always Right ?

• Some time we create hurt due to other person's behavior with us, that's ok we feel bad also. 
• Their behavior shows their quality of mind, we can't change that. 
• But if we copy unpleasant behavior of others, we block our beautiful qualities, let us do not expect people to have same qualities as us. 
• If we choose tit for tat ,at that time we want be like them what we are actually not.
• Be yourself No need to copy unpleasant behavior of others. 

Believe yourself Believe your dream

    BELIEVE  yourself  FOLLOW your                                          "DREAM"


First and important thing is ,what we actually want to be... 
    Ask following questions to yourself and give true answer from heart. 

•  The option I choose as my career, I have actual interest in this field. 
• Am I under pressure of family members and friends? 
• Will I justice with my self ? 

Now you got all answers ,it's time to do your best give your best. 

When you decide never give up till you reach your dream or goal.. 

Here some points which are actually key towards your dream. 

• Determination 
• Time management 
• Failure acceptance 

Determination : 

1 . When you decide its do or die situation, now give your best in any condition. 

2 . Avoid blaming situations and people .

3 . Success does not have any shortcuts,be patient have faith in your self. 

Time management :

1 . Time management plays an important role in life if you want be successful.

2 . Never give liberty to yourself, make one time table and follow it every day till you reach your goal.

3 . In case some time you can't follow time table then be ready to do double work on next day. 

4 . Maintain consistency for better results. 

5 . Time never stop for any one there fore use time wisely. 

Failure Acceptance :

1 . No one is perfect some times we face failure, even we give our best, if we made mistakes means we tried. 

2 . Experience and mistake is best teacher in life, learn from that move on. 

3 . Boost yourself, I can do it now better than previous, I have capacity.

4 . After every dark night there is morning gives us  hope for new beginning. 

Choice is yours do or die, give up or try hard. 

Be yourself follow your dream. 

What other people think of me

            what other people think of me?

• Spend a day without bothering about what others do or think. Half of your problems will solve automatically. 
• When we repeatedly thinks about what people think of me we never ever give our best. 
• If we think what we have always thought, then we will get what we always got.
•  If we want better result than we have to overcome our fear of what people think of me. 

Be Yourself

             Be yourself... 

• Our Happiness depends on opinion and reaction of other people,there fore we easily affected by them. 
• When we become dependent on people's approval for taking our decisions in life then we may take decisions which are not comfortable for us. 
• Do not make choices to please people and their appreciation, be yourself. 
• Be yourself because you only know, where you were,where you are, where you have to go.

Patience

                    Patience ....

• Patience is that positive energy which take exam of our efforts, and that exam is directly proportional to time. 
• We want instant result of our efforts, and that is also  always the way we want .
• Sometimes we got result which take more time, because time also need some time to give result.
• When situation is not our control at that time patience and faith plays important role in our life. 
• Faith in our efforts be patient. 

Over Thinking

                Over Thinking 

• Over Thinking result is always kills today's happiness. 
• In life we face some situations, which are not in our control , when we think again and again about that it depletes our positive energy. 
• When we think repeatedly, that will become our habit there fore we have to boost our mind with positive thoughts. 
•  we can not change the things, but we create obstacles in present efforts. 

Positive

                    Positive Thinking 

• Positive thinking means not expecting the best every time, but accepting that what happens this moment is best for me. 
• Positivity starts where expections for best ends and acceptance starts. 
• When you always think positive, it gives positivity in every situation and we extract our best for next moment. 
• We happy with outcomes, when we think positive and it gives us strength, confidence, courage for the next time. 

Problem

            What is problem? 

• Our problem is not actual problem, our reaction is main problem. 
• Problem is depends on how much pain we created, it also creates Hurt, Fear, Anxiety, Insecurity.
• Don't let situation control us, we have to control situation. 
• Size of problems depends on how much pain we created. 
• Don't get irritated by such situations, because things are powerless without our reaction. 

Labeling

                    Avoid Labeling 

• We want other person should finished product, but we are not perfect .
• Everyone make mistakes, we teach from mistakes and experiences,but we label person by their past mistake.
• When we start labeling people, our perspective always see them by that label. 
• Even though that person is right but we see them from that label and we made certain image in our mind. 
• We have to stop labeling accept the people and let the things go without holding our particular perspective.  

Beyond Money

                 Things Beyond Money 

• We think that each and  everything can buy using money, but truth is that we can make life comfortable by money. 
• Money is important aspect but we can not buy Health, Happiness, Humanity, Peace,Bliss,Harmony .
• The way we treat or speak to people define our personalitiy which never buy using money. 
• Even though without or less money our life and survival is difficult ,but truth is that without Peace, Happiness, Harmony, Humanity, Bliss our life is difficult. 

                 Stop Blaming 

• Whatever happens in our life, we are responsible for that,there less chances of situations and circumstances. 
• We always blame other people or situation. 
• Some time we got unexpected results, and we feel low but this is right time to correct mistake and self improvement rather than blaming others. 
• Where attention goes, energy flows where energy flow things grows do not think about failure don't blame empower ourself by encouragement. 

Thoughts

          Your Thoughts your Destiny... 

• You need to collect thoughts just like you collect cloths. 
• If you have control on your thoughts you have control on your life. 
• We human creates 50k to 60k thoughts every day, there fore it impact on our body and life. Our thoughts should be pure, positive, powerful, clean. 
• Some time we feel low, cause at that time we create negative thoughts. 
• Our personalitiy is depends on our action, action is result of our attitude, attitude is create from our thoughts. 
• Each and every thought create destiny if you want change your life first change your thoughts. 

Comparison

         Comparison is thief of peace

• If we want to compare then compare with ourself. 
• Comparison comes from the feeling of being and doing better than others and it is never ending race. 
• If we always compare with other there is always someone who is ahead of us, it leads to stress and we never satisfied with our result. 
• In life our intension should be do our best by focusing our qualities, capacity, skills and doing better than our previous performance not better than other. 
• Self comparison is always easy than comparison with other, it gives result in the form of self improvisation. 

Don't say Wrong

                        Don't say wrong 

• No one is wrong in this world, it's only thing that we are different and different does not mean wrong. 
• We see only through our perspective without considering other person's. 
• The other person's perspective is different ,we can't label it as wrong. When we directly say it wrong then there is feeling of disrespecting. 
• If both stick with there opinion then there will be conflict in each and every thing we speak and heatly conversation convert into arguments.
• Different people have different perspective and there different choices,so they have different opinion of Right and wrong, Good and Bad, Like and Dislike. 
• Accept the thing no one is wrong, it's only difference in perspective and don't try to control and change them, if we remember this thing in our life we can avoid many problems. 

   

Giving gives us "Happiness "..

              Giving gives us "Happiness "...

• It is true that giving gives us happiness but when we give something never expect any thing in return. 
• Let us create gratitude for everything we give and everything we need, eg. If we do charity, there should not be thought of getting recognition in return. 
• Intension behind the giving should be pure and selfless when intensions are selfless we get positive energy and vibration which empowers us. 
• Giving word is not only relat with money, it can relate with Appreciation, Happiness, Love, Care, Respect and all these things should be in giving mode not in expecting mode. 
• In expecting mode there is chances of Anger, Hurt, Fear and in giving mode we create Peace, Love, Happiness which makes us emotionally strong. 
• Sometime people need our opinion giving opinion is good thing, but if they reject it don't feel bad our role is to give not necessary it will always be implemented. 

Never criticise

               Never "Criticise "....

• Never criticise other or ourself ,self criticism depletes our energy. Let us appreciate and motivate ourself and create a new self image. 
• If other person criticise us we can reject their opinion it's depending on our mind instead if we criticise ourself our mind easly accept criticism and in this case we can not protect from self criticism. 
• Sometimes we feel low and our mind creates negative thoughts about ourself, do not neglect it or avoid it. With calm mind and with understanding. Shift our mind from self criticism to self motivation and you will see the positive result. 
• When we make mistakes and criticise our self we feel weak, and here we give our self the permission to repeat the mistake,to avoid this we have to believe ourself by boosting that i have potential, I can do it right this time. 
• If we criticise ourself we block our positive energy. 
• People opinion, thought,word and action towards us is like Gift for us but if people criticise that is completely our choice to discourage ourself or motivate ourself. 
• For positive change in our life"Never criticise ourself"